‘Listening’ is a skill that is
important to every individual. ‘Listening’ is not ‘hearing’. That you are
hearing something does not necessarily mean you are listening to it. Listening
as a skill has received a lot of importance of late. Research on the subject shows
that listening can be improved. It has also been concluded to a certain extent
that listening promotes communication skills. It means a person who can listen accurately
can also speak effectively and precisely.
There are many physical and
physiological barriers to listening. A sheer lack of objective and
concentration could also prove a potential impediment to the listening process.
As suggested earlier, research have proven that ‘listening’ is a skill and
could be developed meticulously. In this article we are going to deal with five
proven ways to improve listening skills. Do read them all carefully and
comprehend the essence.
1.Tend
to be objective during listening: Please do not get carried away by the
trivialities of the situation or idiosyncrasies of the teacher. Shift your
focus away from these desultory aspects.
Pay attention to the content and content alone. Listen to the important
aspects being disclosed. Note down the facts and arguments. This way, make the
listening process more receptive and active.
2. Do
not become opinionated during listening: Listen first. Jot down and
understand all the points suggested. Then take your time to build your
argument. Question only when you have understood the content thoroughly and
need some genuine clarification. Do not just question for the sake of
questioning.
3. Look
at the speaker, and maintain eye contact during listening: This will
certainly help you stay focused longer. A positive affirmation by means of a
nod, a smile will encourage the speaker to share with your even more valuable
information.
4. Forget
about the world around you for a while: The entire world comes back to you
once you are done with your listening. A complete attention of this kind will
help you chisel your listening skills greatly.
5. Question
yourself as you listen: This will help you refine your analytical skills.
Ask yourself why? And How? Questions. These are some basic questions you need
to ask yourself as you are listening to a piece of information or lecture. Mind
you, this will make you an active listener too!
All these suggestions will help
you process the required information while you are listening. Listening is an indispensable act to communicating effectively. Empathetic listeners make great
communicators and vice-versa. If you feel that you have not done enough justice
to this skill, no worries, you could always read this article and understand
your own shortcomings.
If you are in possession of some
more information pertaining to ‘listening’, do share with us here, beneath this
article.
Wishing you Success!!
Source: developingcareer.com
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